When I say Long Distance, what strikes your mind? Journey, communication or relationship!
Relationship of course! Yeah, that’s what I am talking about here.
Do you also have a long distance relationship?
Well, not many of us have a long distance relationship. Many actually don’t believe in such relation. Do you believe in it?
As far as I know, it’s quite difficult to pursue someone who lives so far. You don’t know about his/her daily routine, what is he/she doing at different hours, what he/she says to you is actually correct or not and many more. Well, these are the questions that cross my mind every time I think of long distance relationship. Moreover, I have read and heard that long distance relationship doesn’t really work out because your partner is not physically present. Do you agree to it?
However, my perception has changed a bit now. Tell me if you agree with me.
I feel, the charm of waiting for the special phone call at night or any other specific time, the rush hour of finishing all pending tasks before that call so that you can spend endless moments of togetherness over the phone, the feeling of contentment for the day after your conversation is over after three or four hours, the joy of imagining and visualising your conversation and again the wait for the next phone call, is an amazing lifetime experience. It’s priceless. I think even the zeal of dating someone face-to-face isn’t this crazy. Beat that!
Apart from an emotional joy of receiving a phone call from someone special who is showering , when you certainly develop the love and care for your mobile phone and crazily looks out for the cheapest mobile plan that gives higher talk time gives a nice feeling or may be a blank feeling. Isn’t it? Not only this, if having post-paid mobile service then higher monthly bills are also taken for granted. I myself can cut the cost on my beauty regime and pay higher mobile phone bills if needed.
Well, psychology, the only idea that drives the long distance relationship is the Imagination. If you are creative or if you love to be in fairytales or wonderland, this could be the best life time experience where you could live your life with your prince or princess charming in your self-created world happily. Moreover, because everything is imagination, so chance of tiff is less. Therefore, you will have a lesser stressful relationship.
And finally, once you meet face-to-face, you will try to live your fairy tale world and will talk about it with each other. Yeah, there are higher chances of failure but why to be pessimist. Be optimist dude and hit it. I bet it will work because you have loved it so far.